Sitting here in the middle of the night considering how to help lead Crossroads into the new year. We put together a brochure based on our Jeremiah 6:16 theme verse but I know brochures (and any kind of writing) just don't make the kind of difference that God is calling us to make. It's got to be preached and lived out, so that's what I'm getting ready to do. (If you're interested in seeing more of the brochure, click here.)
I'm planning on using two examples of what it means to "Stand at the crossroads, look, ask and walk." The first, from the Bible, is the story of King Josiah. The history of Josiah's people leading up to the beginning of his reign was a true nightmare! The people of God had turned against the Lord in almost every way imaginable, and they were about to be destroyed because of their sin.
At some point during King Josiah's reign, one of the faithful religious leaders finds "a book" that just happens to be the book of the law of Moses. I haven't yet investigated how it is that the book was lost, but what's important is what Josiah and his people did when the book was found! First Chronicles 34-35 says that the book's recovery resulted in blessed obedience! The people turned from their sinful ways and began following the Lord.
The second example I'm hoping also to use is from our Crossroads church family. Just how I will share this is yet to be determined, but there is a sweet process of (1) coming to a "crossroad" of life and stopping there to (2) look, (3) ask and (4) act differently that is coming to pass in someone's life these days. It's so exciting to see someone set free! It's a long process and people need support and honest companionship as they go through it, but I believe Crossroads Community Church came into being for that purpose.
Lots still to work on as I prepare this message, but, at the moment, I need sleep! Good night!
When I woke just before 5 this morning, I looked out and saw the beautiful a beautiful snowfall by the light of the street lamp. I love the quiet of early morning and the slowly drifting snow was a real gift. Our Father God has designed this world with a glory that shines today. Thank you God!
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I'm particularly thankful for this sign of God's wonderful design because I know that all is not really calm and bright right now in this world. I'm thankful for this snowfall in the way that the soldiers were thankful during "Christmas truce" of 1914, "a symbolic moment of peace and humanity amidst one of the most violent events of modern history."
You who are reading this blog post may not feel as if you are in a difficult or dangerous place, but the fact is that this world (and each of us) is indeed in the midst of a war. We've seen this war come to the surface recently in Newtown, Connecticut, where so many were killed in what seems to have been the act of a young man who had been profoundly troubled, probably for most of his life. You may not be experiencing physical warfare or violence today, but the Bible teaches us that you and I are in the midst of a war that goes on constantly. Still, we can praise God for simple joys like snowfalls and quiet mornings, which God gives to us as a sign of his constant care and the final victory that will be ours because of what he has done in Jesus Christ, whose birth we celebrate now.
More about this in the message the Lord is preparing me to preach this afternoon.
On this blog page you'll find a place where my "twitter" feed is located. These days it seems there is little focused time for writing, so I'm mostly sharing what I'm up to, and the Lord says to me, in 140 characters (letters & spaces etc.), the maximum I'm allowed in that medium. Whether this is a good development or not, that's the reality for now.
At the moment, I'm moving on to other things, like cleaning, my small part in getting the house ready for people coming here for Christmas Eve... and Jon's birthday tomorrow!
The days fly past. I'm so much looking forward to taking time to write, or, at least, some "leisure" with enough spiritual energy for preaching preparation. Perhaps today, after my morning school bus route, and after I help someone out with getting food from the food shelf... perhaps today will be the day I can do that.
These days of getting up so early and then of having time chopped up by my afternoon school bus route have taught me how well "kept" I have been in my life as a pastor. For a long time I served as a denominational pastor with benefits and a salary determined by "guidelines" that were always enough for me and my family. I didn't need to think about having a second job during all those years, and it wasn't necessary for Toni to be employed more than part time. How privileged I have been!
It has been God, our Abba, who has cared for us all these years. My Father God took care of me well, so I could help Toni raise our children. Glory be to God for that. Such a privilege! Thank you Jesus!
It occurs to me this morning that as of next month I will have been in church service, more or less, for about 30 years. I wasn't officially "ordained" until 1986, but very early January of 1983, I entered that service as an intern of the former American Lutheran Church serving in Brazil. I just received a "stipend" for living expenses during those years... but still, I haven't had to be concerned about finances in a deep way even one time during all those years. How blessed I have been.
We have always had enough! At the beginning, 30 years ago as an international intern, I received very little by the standards of my country. But it was always more than enough. I even asked the church to cut my stipend at a certain time because I knew I had so much more than those I was living with there in Brazil. Then, after a couple more years of seminary, being well "kept" by Toni who worked full time way back then for a "para-church" group (Lutheran Youth Encounter), I and we moved on to full time pastoral service.
It's always been enough! Imagine that! Thirty years of sustenance the Lord has provided! And, of course, before that... my parents watching over me and making sure I was taken care of so well. And the health and strength God gave me so I could work and "provide for myself" until I finally did end up in a lasting career. How wonderful! And now, with the combination of church service through Crossroads and this bus driving job, and Toni's various positions, we're okay!
Keep me in your grace and peace, Father. Let me continue to serve you as long as I live. Thank you, Jesus, for keeping me and my family safe and well in your service. Thank you Lord!
(And now I have taken time to write and so I need to run! God has always blessed me in this way and I'm thankful for that too. I just will need to skip my morning prayer time with my North Heights friends this morning at 6:30... I'll need to be inspecting my school bus then today!)
God has blessed us with one another! As I have been awake for a bit in the middle of this night, I am praising God for friends who have encouraged me to find my strength in the Lord. The Lord gave me this verse: "Jonathan went to David and helped him find strength in God." (1st Samuel 23:16)
Matthew Henry's Commentary on the Whole Bible says this:
David, though a strong believer, needed the help of his friends for the perfecting of what was lacking in his faith; and herein Jonathan was helpful to him, by reminding him of the promise of God, the holy oil wherewith he was anointed, the presence of God with him hitherto, and the many experiences he had had of God’s goodness to him. Thus he strengthened his hands for action, by encouraging his heart, not in the creature, but in God. Jonathan was not in a capacity of doing any thing to strengthen him, but he assured him God would.
Even when we cannot do anything personally for our friends, we still can help them find their strength by directing them toward God.
Father God, help us be wise in encouraging one another to find our strength in you and in your word. Send your Holy Spirit among us to help us in this way. In Jesus' name.
I hope to say more about this tomorrow in worship, and perhaps later today here on this blog, but if you look at Psalm 46 you'll see a reference to a "river whose streams make the city of God glad." This photo is of a child standing in the water of one of those "streams," a stream flowing through a tunnel has carried water to the populated places of Jerusalem from the Gihon Spring for thousands of years. The spring is the "river," the source of life giving water that allowed this "City of God" to grow up in this otherwise very dry part of the world.
What is the source of your life? Where is your stream? Will you take time to be refreshed?
Jesus said: “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. Whoever who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’ ” But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. (John 7:37-39)
Today I was challenged by two pastors who are living disciplined lives. They shared some words today that I am thankful for.
Pastor Per Nilsen, the lead pastor of the "Network" I'm a part of with North Heights and many other churches and pastors in the twin cities area, seems to be able to get by well on just a few hours of sleep each night. Maybe he is "wired" that way... I've never felt a call to sleep as little as he does, but I am challenged by him nonetheless. What he says just makes me consider that I can do the best I can with the body and mind God has give me. Early this morning Pastor Per said, via twitter:
Did not want to get up @ 430am to workout after getting to sleep @ 1230. So glad I did. Discipline makes a difference!!
Then, at our pastor's prayer meeting today, Pastor Lyndon Korhonen presented a piece on financial stewardship he entitled "Confidence to Live Different." Pastor Lyndon lives an extremely frugal life, a life that will never be shaken by financial insecurity because, for example, he always pays off his credit card every month and scrutinizes every purchase he makes, no matter how small. He does his own repairs and his own building when necessary. Pastor Lyndon based his teaching on the following verse:
In the fear of the Lord is strong confidence: and his children shall have a place of refuge. (Proverbs 14:26)
I will never be like either of those two, but I can allow their example to challenge me. I can learn to be more disciplined, even at 56 years old! I can study God's Word and let it form me instead of allowing myself to be driven along by temptation.
None of us have the same abilities and we are not all made the same by
the Lord. We were trained up differently when we were children. EVEN
SO, we can learn and grow and change! I will not be the most
disciplined among my brothers and sisters, but I can choose not to
settle for being a mediocre me. I can use what I have been given in the
best possible way.
So today I am thankful for friends like Lyndon and Per that spur me on to live more faithfully as a disciple of Jesus.
Why? Not to earn any credit before God, but to be a more effective disciple of Jesus, to be a better example for others to follow in their every day lives, and to be more faithful in carrying out the mission God has given me in this life. To God be the glory every day!
(These were the notes I used as I preached the first message of the "TIME" series yesterday at Crossroads. Click here for Sunday Worship audio. The message begins about 40 minutes in.)
Psalm 31:14-15 As for me, I trust in You, O Lord, I say, “You are my God.” My times are
in Your hand.
We’re beginning a new preaching series today, just in TIME
for the ramp up to Christmas.
How many of you find this to be a relaxing time of year?
We sing songs that sound
relaxing at Christmas… Silent Night… O
Little Town of Bethlehem… but often times Christmas seems more like this…
watch carefully… it’s a very quick video…
Video Clip from Alice in Wonderland... "I'm Late"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDO5ea8MwgY
How does that feel to you?
Does it feel like God?Does it feel godly?
So why do we get like
that?So worried about TIME.And worried about time in a really wrong way.
At the end of the message today I’d like to take time to
pray for some of you personally about this.
Because some of you don’t really know what it is like to
rest in the presence of God regularly… to do what it says in Matthew 6:33 and
to experience the peace and provision that is promised.
Matthew 6:33 – Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His
Righteousness and everything else will be added, provided, given… everything
you need.
That’s the promise.Everything you need will be provided when you seek the kingdom of God
and his righteousness first.
First—First every day.The word “seek” here isn’t a one time
seeking.It’s a regular, every day sort
of thing.You can see that clearly in
the original Greek of the Bible.
Regularly, continually, seeking the Kingdom of God and God’s
righteousness… Regularly, continually… reading God’s Word, taking time to let
God speak to you personally.Spending time with God in prayer. (This is not a seeking God for salvation. God is the "seeker" in that case. He seeks after us!... see
Going off the clock with God.Being counter-clock-wise.
When you do that… when time with God is your first priority,
then everything else will be provided.Everything you need.
But don’t think that
means you’ll always make everyone else happy.
Sometimes putting the kingdom of God first every day means
you’ll be late!Or it might mean you’ll need to leave early.Or it might mean that you won’t be able to meet everyone’s highest socialexpectations…
or even your own…
God is calling us to be
transformed, to be changed, to reflect HIS glory more and more… not to be
conformed to the clocks or the expectations of this world.
The devil wants to distract
us, and during this time of year the devil uses social expectations in an
especially expert way… he lies to us and makes us believe that to be a
Christian means to make everyone comfortable… and that is just not true.
Let’s look at three examples from Jesus’ life.
Example number one—from John chapter 11 beginning with verse
1
Now a man named
Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and Martha… (we’ll
get to Mary and Martha again later)… This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay
sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with
her hair.So the sisters sent word to
Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”
Verse 4 – When heard
this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s
glory so that God’s Son (that’s Jesus himself) might be glorified through it.
Jesus loved Martha and
her sister and Lazarus.Yet, when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he
stayed where he wastwo more days.
Jesus got a call from Mary and Martha.Lazarus was sick.Deathly. But Jesus did not drop everything; in fact, it
was important that he get there late so the
disciples, and Mary, and Martha, and Lazarus… so they could all know the extent
of the wonder working poser of God!
Jesus did not get to Lazarus until he had been dead FOUR
DAYS…. And then the miracle happened.Lazarus was raised from the dead!...
Part of the plan was for Jesus to be late.
I’m sure that made Mary and Martha really uncomfortable… and
perhaps even a bit angry.
But, obviously, making them happy was not Jesus’ first
priority.
Second, let’s look at Mark 1… Mark chapter 1, verse 32…
Here we have Jesus doing some great healing ministry in a
city down by the Sea of Galilee called Capernaum.He has just healed Simon Peter’s
mother-in-law...:
Mark 1:32 That evening
after sunset the people brought to Jesus all the sick and demon possessed.The whole town gathered at the door, and
Jesus healed many who had various diseases. He also drove out many demons but
he would not let the demons speak because they knew who he was.
But see what he does the next morning… Verse 35 - Very early in the morning, while it was still
dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place where he
prayed. Simon (that’s Simon Peter) and his companions went to look for him, and
when they found him, they exclaimed: “Everyone is looking for you!”
Verse 38 – Jesus
replied, “Let us go somewhere else—to the nearby villages—so I can preach there
also. That is why I have come.” So he traveled throughout Galilee, preaching in
their synagogues and driving out demons.
Here Jesus doesn’t arrive late, he leaves early!
Jesus has got to do this FIRST thing… He’s got to spend time
with God… seek ye FIRST the kingdom of God and his righteousness… even Jesus
does that!
How many of you want to be disciples, followers of
Jesus?(pause)How many of you have learned Jesus is the
best?Don’t you want to model your life
after his?
Jesus is our Lord and Savior.What he does, we do.
Let’s say that: Jesus is our Lord and Savior.
What he does, we do.
So, if that’s true, we will recognize that sometimes God
will tell us to take time away from others even when they want us to be
there. Sometimes, following Jesus, we will leave early and move on when
others don’t want us to.
Once again, making everyone happy and comfortable was not
Jesus’ first concern.Spending time with
His Father… spending time in prayer… that was first.
So, followers of Jesus – disciples – you who want to be
close to God’s heart…
Is this seeking of
the kingdom of God and his righteousness the first thing in your life, the top
priority, the ONE thing that you will not give up…?
Is your time with God an every day sort of thing, something
you really miss if you skip a day?
How much time do you spend with the Lord?
Are you reading God's Word and meditating on it, allowing it
to permeate your soul regularly?
Are you taking time for
prayer like Jesus did, enough time that sometimes other people wonder where you
are?
Are you seeking to hear God's voice, to know God's will
about what's going on in your life?
Or have you allowed the devil to distract you from your
first love?
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and
everything else will be added unto you… everything you need.
Will you let me pray with you after church or at another
time about this?I won’t shame you… this
struggle is common to all of us… no one is immune…
One more place from Jesus life to look at… this time it is a
teaching… a teaching that Jesus gives to women in particular…
Luke 10:38–42
38As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, Jesus came to a
village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. 39She had a sister
called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. 40But Martha was
distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and
asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by
myself? Tell her to help me!” 41“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you
are worried and upset about many things, 42but only one thing is needed. Mary
has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
What a radical word!So
countercultural.
There is a specially designed temptation… the devil has
designed this one especially for women… a temptation that seems so socially
acceptable if not politically correct… a temptation to a hurry-hurry lifestyle
that scurrys around trying to make everything just so…
And it’s a distraction… not the only distraction… time spent
with sports or hunting or too much time at the office or in the shop can be
just as bad if not worse, but this lifestyle of hurrying to make everyone happy
and comfortable is not what God wants—and especially this needs to be heard by
women who are disciples of the Lord.
It’s okay, no, it’s commanded by God to make sure just ONE
thing is done… and that ONE thing is to make sure you take time with your Lord.
Mary, and Martha… (look at and name women if possible... ) spend time with God... hear His voice…
Jesus has honored you and he sets you free to do that.
When you spend time with the Lord, he will set you free from
other voices… from the voices of friends or family, the voices of your mother
or mother-in-law… Perhaps sometimes from your husband or children… Or
disembodied voices in your head telling you that you need to make everything
just so…
In Jesus name, by the power of the Holy Spirit, you are FREE… in Jesus
name!
Women, you are not second class disciples.It is just as important for you to be
spending time with God as it is for the men.Recognize the devil’s temptation here...
All of us, men and women, we all need to recognize this… the
devil does not want you to take time with God, to seek the kingdom of God and
his righteousness… that’s why Jesus says it needs to be FIRST… this time with
the Lord and His Word… the time when the Holy Spirit transforms your mind sets
you free… this time of listening to your Good Shepherd.
Everything else you need will be provided… Sometimes
supernaturally, sometimes through other people… you can trust God’s promises…
and if you’re worried, pray… and ask others to pray… will you pray for me? I’ll
pray for you!
Everything does not have to be just so… it is okay sometimes
to be late… it’s okay to leave early… it’s okay to just tend to what is needed…
the basics… not everyone’s top of the line expectations.
In Jesus name you are free of that to spend that time with
the Lord. We are
not on anyone’s clock except God’s.
Psalm 31:14-15 As for
me, I trust in You, O Lord, I say,
“You are my God.” My times are in Your hand.
"...Obedience matters to God. [God the Father] takes note of it. He sees our struggle to live faithfully... He helps us with grace through his Son and Spirit. He values our perseverance.
"In J. R. R. Tolkien's The Lord of the Things trilogy, there is a scene in which Sam, Frodo's companion on the quest to destroy the evil ring made by the dark lord Sauron, reflects on the '[storybook] quality' of his and Frodo's experience.
"'We shouldn't be here at all [Sam says to Frodo], if we'd known more about it when we started. But I suppose it's often that way. The brave things in the old tales and songs, Mr. Frodo: adventures, as I used to call them. I used to think that they were things the wonderful folk of the stories went out and looked for, because they wanted them, because they were exciting and life was a bit dull, a kind of sport, as you might say.
"'But that's not the way of it with the tales that really mattered, or the ones that stay in the mind. Folks seem to have been just landed in them, usually--their paths were laid that way,as you put it. But I expect they had lots of chances, like us, of turning back, only they didn't. And if they had, we shouldn't know, because they'd have been forgotten. We hear about those as just went on--and not all to a good end, mind you; at least not to what folk inside a story and not outside it calla good end; you know, coming home, and finding things all right, though not quite the same--like old Mr. Bilbo. But those aren't always the best tales to hear, though they may be the best tales to get landed in! I wonder what sort of tale we've fallen into.'
"Sam goes on to wonder if he and Frodo will someday be talked about, be remembered, by those who recount their story. In Peter Jackson's wonderful film version of The Two Towers, Sam says:
"'By rights we shouldn't even be here [on this quest]. But we are. . . . I wonder if people will ever say, "Let's hear about Frodo and the Ring." And they'll say, "Yes, that's one of my favorite stories. Frodo was really courageous, wasn't he, Dad." "Yes, my boy, the most famousest of hobbits. And that's saying a lot."'
"Many times in my experience [...] I have wished my life was different, that I had some other burden to bear--anything but this one. But I have also felt that if Someone was watching--taking note; caring about each footfall, each bend in the trail; marking my progress--then the burden may be bearable.
"When the road is long and the loneliness and sheer longing threaten to extinguish hope, it helps to remember that, like Frodo and Sam, I, too, am in a grand tale, with an all-seeing, all-caring Read or Listener who also happens to be in some mysterious way the author.
"Sam of the Lord of the Rings trilogy believed there would be listeners and readers who would want to know the story of this struggle. I believe that in my case too, there is Someone who cares about my story. Unlike Sam and Frodo's, my story and the depths of my struggle may never be observed or known by any human watcher. But I can still endure--I can keep on fighting to live faithfully as a believer bearing my broken [insert here whatever part of your life seems to be broken and, for now, beyond repair]--so long as I have the assurance that my life matters to God, that, wonder of wonders, my faith pleases him, that somehow it makes him smile."
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The words above are from the book Washed and Waitingby Wesley Hill. Wesley's particular burden is homosexuality; he writes as a celibate gay Christian. Like Wesley, and like Sam in the Lord of the Rings, I bear burdens too, different from those of Wesley, Sam and Frodo, but similar too because the road is very long.
I'm sure many of you, the readers of this blog, are dealing with painfully difficult aspects of your life, even of the way it seems that you have been since you were born. Or perhaps you've passed through fiery trials and bear physical or emotional/spiritual scars. Perhaps you've been sometimes "coping" in ways that are not good. Perhaps sometimes you succeed in doing things in a good way. Perhaps at other times you fail miserably.
Wesley Hill's story, and the stories of others who have borne with suffering, encourage me in faithfulness to God even when few, or none but God, know my whole story today. I hope this encourages you too. At the same time, I do hope you will look for someone (or some group) you trust to share your story. Burdens shared make the load lighter. Believe me. I know.
Those of us who do not suffer same-sex attractions cannot
understand or appreciate the depths of what those brothers and sisters
go through. Even so, every Christian can, to some extent, understand what it means to wrestle with faithfulness to God and the Word of God, while at the same time suffering
unfulfilled desires or dreams and frustrations. Sometimes this wrestling is accompanied by loneliness--an inability to explain fully to others what it is you are going through. So, as Wesley Hill's book makes us a bit more compassionate toward those with homosexual desires, others benefit too... (See the end of this blog post for a quote from his book's introduction.)
Christians end up doing two things in this life in regard to the pain and frustrations we face. First, we do not give up praying and seeking for healing and complete release from whatever we (or others) are suffering. Second, and at the same time, we expect God to be at work in and through us (and others) while we (and they) are still suffering -- while we all, to some extent, are "washed and waiting."
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In the section of his book immediately after he shares the analogy of Sam and Frodo, Wesley Hill tells a part of the story of Martin Hallert, another celibate homosexual Christian. Martin goes another step, saying, in faith, that his homosexual orientation is a gift, even while saying that it is God's will for him to abstain from homo erotic behavior.
"So many people," Wesley is here paraphrasing Martin Hallert, "can only see their experiences of homosexuality 'as problems to be "defeated," and "handicaps" to be "healed."'
Wesley Hill goes on:
"But for Martin, his homosexuality is a 'positive thing' -- not because it is good in and of itself but rather because, under God's sovereignty, it can lead to blessings. 'Scripture continually shows us that even bad things can have value,' Martin says frequently.
"Early on in his life living as a Christian in England, Martin found that his homosexuality gave him a ministry in the church. Under the guidance of a wise vicar, Canon Roy Barker, Martin shared his story through an organized event for anyone in the church interested in the topic of homosexuality. '[Canon Barker] saw a lot of potential in me,' Martin would later write, '--not despite my homosexuality but because of it.' Martin says that, though he couldn't see it at the time, these early ministry experiences caused him to see his homosexual orientation as valuable, as positive, as something that could be used to help others in the body of Christ.
"'My life story ..., "written" by God, who is sovereign, include[s] my sexuality, which is a gift to the church,' writes Martin. 'I am very grateful that I see this experienced nearly every day of my life. I am able to see my struggles and failures, as well as my victories, as being of value to others.' Our sexuality, 'can be a gift to others,' he continues. 'We may use it to encourage someone else. We may use it simply to love and trust another person with a sexual confession.'
Martin compares this process of entrusting another person with the story of our homosexuality to 'unwrapping a gift.' 'The gift is one of self-disclosure. You are trusting the other with personal information that can often cost a lot, but it is a wonderful act of love.' I think of my own experiences of opening up the narrative of my journey as a homosexual Christian with friends at my church in Minneapolis. Invariably (though I didn't believe them at a the time) they told me it felt like love; my trusting them enough to share my story was an honor, they said, a sacred trust. 'We need to recognize the ministry that we and others have, not despite our unique stories and situation, but because of them.'(Emphasis mine [ST])
So, I share this here, on this blog, in the hopes that it will encourage someone to persevere in faithfulness to God, knowing that there is an author and an "audience of One" (God) who applauds that faithfulness and who is cheering you on. But beyond that, I encourage you to believe and know that, whatever your struggle is, it can be a blessing to others--no matter how deep and dark and long the road may feel. That will become true when you come out of hiding and begin to carefully share your journey with others as well as with the Lord.
Wesley Hill concludes his book, first by again referring to the journey of his older "brother," Martin Hallert:
"For Martin, homosexuality 'speaks' of brokenness, of past hurts and wounds. It calls us to consider our own lives and to trust in the mystery of God's providence and his gift of redemption through Christ. With patience and openness to the good that may come even from evil, we can learn to "hear" the voice of our sexuality, to listen to its call. We can learn to "appreciate the value of our story and the stories of others, because God is the 'potter' or 'storyteller'."
Wesley then speaks these words in his own voice--
"Slowly, ever so slowly, I am learning to do this. I am learning that my struggle to live faithfully before God in Christ with my homosexual orientation is pleasing to him. And I am waiting for the day when I will receive the divine accolade, when my labor of trust and hope and self-denial will be crowned with his praise. 'Well done, good and faithful servant,' the Lord Christ will say. 'Enter into the joy of your master.'"
I'd like to encourage you to buy and read the book Washed and Waiting. Also consider, please, that whatever you are suffering in this life that, at the moment, seems as though will continue forever (in this life)--please understand that your struggles are not unknown to God, and that you do have many brothers and sisters all around you who are dealing with many things that may never know, and that, in the end of the end, there is full healing and full freedom waiting for you in the Kingdom of God.
The road may be long, but you are not alone, and the road is NOT forever. Continue to pray for release and healing, continue to share your struggles and pray with those you come to trust, and know that even the worst of your worst times can be a blessing to the world God loves so much when you submit them to our Father God, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
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In the introduction to Washed and Waiting, Wesley Hill writes:
"I hope there are others who will overhear what I write who struggle long and hard with persistent, unwanted desires or other afflictions that are similar in some ways to those of gay and lesbian Christians--chemical dependencies, eating disorders, mental and emotional disturbances of various kinds. If Christians in these and other related positions are able to adapt and appropriate some of what I say to fit their own situations, I will be happy. The Christian's struggle with homosexuality is unique in may ways but not completely so. The dynamics of human sinfulness and divine mercy and grace are the smae for all of us, regardless of the particular temptations or weaknesses we face."
O
Father, send your Holy Spirit in power. Do not let us retreat into
religion. Transform, challenge, renew, restore so we become all you want
us to be. Make us dissatisfied with mediocrity. Make us all hungry and
thirsty for a real, deep, dangerously close relationship with you, a
relationship that will not settle for anything fake or contrived and
that will burn with love love love love love.
Teach us to be more and more like Jesus, our Savior, our Lord, our Friend, our Example--Your very own Heart.
Oh my God, we ask that You destroy all chains that bind us to the things of this world. Release us to be led by Your Spirit of Life whom Christ imparted to us! Pour out Your powerful boldness, that we may be vessels for Your use in bringing forth Your Kingdom. Help us, Lord, to wash one another's feet, cleansing the dust of walking in this world, encouraging, exhorting and edifying one another as You taught us to do. We commit to heeding Your leading and to surrendering completely (and as often as we must) so that we are submitted to Your Merciful Power and Grace. And God, in Christ and by Your Holy Spirit, we say, together, a great AMEN.
(from Whitney McKendree Moore from "The Disciple Ship Shipmates" - a prayer group on facebook I've belonged to for the last two years or so. The group's founder, Eric Swensson says: We think doing effective evangelism is about discipleship. We think this is simple, but hard. Therefore, we need constant contact with our Triune God and with other disciples. We need prayer. The group Shipmates is prayer support for people everywhere who are
involved in discipleship evangelism... Talking about prayer is good, but actually praying is much better. When
people ask you to pray don't say "I'll pass that along to my prayer
list" say, "Would you like to pray with me now? What would you like us
to pray for?")
God cares about us, deeply, perfectly, wonderfully, but He steps on our emotional toes all the time.
It's for a good purpose, of course, but where do we all get the idea that we ought to be so careful of feelings? Shouldn't we just grow up?
That's one of the meanings behind the scripture lesson we'll be using at Crossroads this coming Sunday (Nov. 11) in the story of the "Rich Young Man" in Mark 10:17-22. At the end of the story the young man is shocked at what Jesus has said to him (that he should sell his property and give to the poor) and "goes away" because he is so sad.
The thing is this, Jesus loved this young man, it says in verse 21 that the reason Jesus gave him this hard word was because He, Jesus, loved that man. He hurt his feelings because he loved him. Wow.
The Word of God often intends to hurt our feelings so we will change. As Jesus' followers, we will get our feelings hurt, and, as his disciples, we will speak his Word and hurt others' feelings too. It seems to me that is unavoidable?
Who do you obey? Who is your leader? Those are important questions for us on this last Sunday of October, a day known as "Reformation Sunday," a few days before "Reformation Day."
There is nothing in the Bible about Reformation Day, since it was set in remembrance of a day 1500 years after the time of the Bible, the day in 1517 when Martin Luther posted his "95 theses" on the door of a church in Wittenberg Germany.
When he posted those theses (points for discussion and debate), Martin Luther rejected the idea that we ought to just be quiet and simply obey what church leaders say. Instead, he put his voice to work echoing the voice of Jesus, calling the church leaders to reject anything that was opposed to the Word of God.
My prayer is that the people of my church would do the same. I pray that each one would have the same tenacity and spunk that Martin Luther had, that they would not follow me or any other spiritual leader, but that they would each hear Jesus' voice and, when they think I or any other leaders are wrong, that they would speak out, either publicly, as Martin Luther did, or that they would go to their leader personally as Jesus outlines in Matthew 18:15: "If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother."
Martin Luther didn't have the ability to speak personally with his spiritual leader. The Roman Catholic church was set up in such a way that there was only one leader, and he was far away in the city of Rome. Therefore Martin Luther dared to speak and write publicly. He did not just whisper his criticisms to others, be boldly spoke out! What a wonderful example! I am so thankful for him and for all who follow that courageous example, even in my local church.
It could be that you are hearing Jesus' voice more clearly than your pastor. It could be that your local or national spiritual leaders are wrong about something. God is so gracious that he does not immediately reject those leaders but instead speaks to them through other Christians. God often uses "ordinary" people like you to bring correction and admonition. Please do not remain silent when God speaks!
Could you be wrong about your criticism? Absolutely! But there should be no fear in being wrong. We have God's Written Word to help us. Bring your criticism, either publicly like Luther, or privately. And then let us sit down together with the Word of God to discern the truth. And let's be loving and patient with each other on the way.
Tomorrow morning we're beginning the series of messages that I wrote about on Tuesday, though at that time I didn't mention the sermon series title: Words with Friends. Since that time the focus shifted a bit, partly because on Wednesday evening I was privileged to hear part of what Ann Benson shared with our youth this week about Friendship. We talked afterward and now she'll be sharing in part of the sermon tomorrow, using Bible verses that fit perfectly in with the Words with Friends theme.
Have you played "Words with Friends"? It's an online crossword puzzle game. It's a lot like Scrabble. At right you'll see a picture of the game board. It must be fun. Five million people have played.
Real-life "words with friends" can be fun too. God gave human beings the ability to use language and people have developed more ways to speak and write with words than I can even imagine.
God gave us the ability to use words so we wouldn't be so isolated, one from another. Let's use our words carefully, but let's not clam up and refuse to talk with one another. And then, when someone talks, take time to listen!
We'll share more about this tomorrow at Crossroads.
My sister-in-law and her husband are here tonight, together with two of their grandchildren. Paul and Becky have been missionaries in Brazil for many years and it's rare that we can be together.
In the course of our conversation Paul was talking about three of the churches that they have founded over the years, two of which are in lower income neighborhoods, and one in a more "middle class" sort of place.
The two churches in the less well-to-do communities are doing well. The other one, actually the one Paul and Becky started first, is having a hard time because the people of the church are gone so often on weekends. The people of the middle-class church appreciate the ministry but just don't have the same contagious Holy Spirit enthusiasm as the others do. In the lower income neighborhoods the people just love to be together and are often inviting others to come along. That doesn't happen as much in the middle class church. It seems he is describing a walk with Jesus that might be described as "lukewarm."
I am SO thankful for the MANY middle-class people that I know who DO have "fire in the belly" for the Lord! I praise God for how many are desiring a closer walk with Jesus, and who find great joy in the Christian community. Many are with us at Crossroads! Thank you Jesus!
I know, however, that the temptations toward individualism and "family life" can get in the way of the work God is wanting to do among us. That is particularly evident among people who can easily get away on the weekends and who have lots of options other than coming to the house of the Lord on Sundays and at other times. None of us are immune to the temptation toward "lukewarm faith."
The men's Bible study at Morris Excavating is reading through the "letters to the churches" in Revelation. As we consider the temperature of our own relationship with the Lord, take time to read what the Spirit says to each of these churches... in the ancient world... and today. Go to http://ref.ly/Re3.14-22;nasb95.
Jesus says: "I advise you to buy from Me gold refined by fire so that you may become rich, and white garments so that you may clothe yourself, and that the shame of your nakedness will not be revealed; and eye salve to anoint your eyes so that you may see. Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline; therefore be zealous and repent." (Revelation 3:18-19)
The gold is found in the Word of God. Buy it by spending time in it every day. Go to Bible study where you can encounter God's word in the company of others! Adjust your life based on what God says to you. Obey, don't resist. The clean, white garments are found in relationship with Jesus alone. Take time in prayer, confessing sin, seeking His will, receiving His grace and amazing joy. Thank you, Jesus, for providing just what we need.
I'm seeking today, in prayer, for the way God is calling me to go in preparation for this Sunday's message. If you looked at the Crossroads website earlier, or if you were in church and picked up a bulletin, you'll see that we have a plan in place. The next topic would be "Confession and Reconciliation." But the fact is that we really didn't cover the topic of "Honesty," which was the announced topic for Oct. 21. This isn't to say that Louis King was anything other than honest with us as he preached! "Honest" may be Louis' middle name! His message, which encompassed two main points," came straight from the heart of a man who is after God's heart. There was nothing fake about it. It was an example of honesty, not a message about honesty, so I believe God is calling us to address the topic, this week of Honesty and Reconciliation. After all, what is confession if not being honest with others, and, of course, with myself.
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*Louis' message from Oct. 21 can be found on our church website's "worship" page. I found two main points in it: (1) Confessing Jesus and (2) Hearing God Speak.
Praying that as we come to worship today we will be changed by the Word of God. Praying that any spirit of religion that would have us think we are "doing something good" when we worship would be taken away so we are naked and open hearted to what God desires to do to us. You are the One, Father God, Jesus, Holy Spirit... YOU ARE THE ONE who does what is good.
Christendom
is largely constituted by this sense – its architecture, its ritual,
its music, its adornment, its lighting (or lack of it), its tone, its
atmosphere, its vestments and so forth. All are of the soul....
Spiritual death marks that realm, and while there may be intense
emotions which make for resolves, "high" thoughts and desires, there is
no genuine change in the nature of those concerned, and repeated doses
of this must be taken to maintain any measure of soul-self-satisfaction
which makes them feel good. All religions have this soulish feature in
common, more or less, and it is here that the fatal blunder has been
made by many religious people who contend that other religions, which
are undoubtedly devout and sincere, should not be interfered with, but
the good in them should be recognized and accepted. It is the confusing
of religion with what the Bible means by being spiritual.
Religion can rise to high levels and sink to terrible
depths. It is the same thing which does both. But that thing never rises
above the human level; it never really reaches God. Religion can be the
greatest enemy of God's true thought, because it is Satan's best
deception. Asceticism is no more truly spiritual than aestheticism.
There is no more a brief with God for rigors, denials, fastings,
puritanic iciness, etc., as such, than for the opposite. Simplicity may
give God a chance, but it is not necessarily spiritual. It may be a
matter of taste....
How near to the truth in perception and
interpretation can the mystical go! What wonderful things can the
imagination see, even in the Bible! What thrills of awe, amazement,
ecstasy, can be shot through an audience or congregation by a master
soul! But it may all be a false world with no Divine and eternal issues.
It may all go to make up this life here, and relieve it of its
drabness, but it ends there. What an artificial world we live in! When
the music is progressing and the romantic elements are in evidence – the
dress and tinsel – and human personalities are parading, see how pride
and rivalry assert themselves, and what a power of make believe enters
the atmosphere! Yes, an artificial world....
The tragedy in this
melodrama is that it is "real life" to so many. This soul-world is the
devil's imitation. It is all false, wherever we may find it, whether
associated with religion or not.... "The Christian Faith" embraced as a
religion, a philosophy, or as a system of truth and a moral or ethical
doctrine, may carry the temporary stimulus of a great ideal; but this
will not result in the regeneration of the life, or the new birth of the
spirit. There are multitudes of such "Christians" in the world today,
but their spiritual effectiveness is nil.
By T. Austin-Sparks from: What is Man? - Chapter 5
